Should Our Vow Renewal Helpers Get Corsages?
Find out whether vow renewal helpers should receive corsages and explore thoughtful alternatives to recognize their contributions to your special day.
Q: Should our vow renewal helpers get corsages? We’ll be having ladies help with the guest book, hand out programs, and cut the cake.
A: While it’s not required, giving your vow renewal helpers corsages is a thoughtful way to show your appreciation for their assistance on your special day. Corsages are a small but meaningful gesture that can make your helpers feel recognized and appreciated for their contributions.
Here are a few things to consider when deciding whether to provide corsages:
1. Corsages Are a Nice Gesture, Not a Requirement
There’s no strict rule that says your helpers must receive corsages, but it’s a kind way to thank them for their efforts. If you’re asking people to help with tasks like managing the guest book, handing out programs, or cutting the cake, giving them a small floral arrangement can make them feel honored to be part of your celebration.
2. Prioritize Family Corsages
Traditionally, corsages are provided to mothers and grandmothers of the couple. If you’re working with a limited budget, prioritize giving corsages to these close family members first. Your helpers can be recognized in other ways, like with a heartfelt thank-you note or a small gift.
3. Consider Smaller or Budget-Friendly Corsages
If budget is a concern, you can opt for smaller corsages or simpler flower arrangements for your helpers. You could also consider non-floral alternatives, such as a small decorative pin or a ribbon that complements the vow renewal’s theme. This still offers a personal touch without breaking the bank.
4. Alternatives to Corsages
If you decide to forgo corsages, there are other ways to acknowledge your helpers. A small token of appreciation, such as a handwritten thank-you note, a small gift, or a mention during the reception, can go a long way in showing your gratitude for their help.
Final Thoughts
While corsages for vow renewal helpers are not mandatory, they are a lovely and traditional way to express your appreciation. If budget allows, even a simple or smaller corsage can make your helpers feel valued. However, if you decide to skip corsages, you can always find alternative ways to thank those who contributed to making your day special.
